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Public Speaking TED Style – the
What the Why and the How..........
As a Speaking Coach, the most common enquiry I receive goes like this:
Hi
Sofia, “I
would like to learn how to speak publicly. I've done a little bit but I often
get very nervous, even in front of a small crowd, especially when I'm not
completely prepared. Can you help?”
Why
is this enquiry typical? The words “nervous” and the phrase “especially
when I’m not completely prepared”. When
you consider that 90% of your public speaking presentation is already
determined before you step on to the platform – you have an idea of the importance
of preparation. It’s only after you have
learnt how to prepare that you can enjoy the 10% - the thrill and the pleasure
of presenting.
There
is so much available and accessible information, tips and techniques on the topic
of public speaking. There are so many
books that have been written – there are so many gurus out there who promise to
show you how. There are even those who claim they can provide you with instant
confidence, kill nerves etc. – and often in a one day workshop costing many
hundreds of dollars.
There are so many theories.
Contemporary
speaking is very different from what many of us know as public speaking. I help my clients to speak in the TED Style –
in the contemporary style – that has as its goal CONNECTING with your audience. This is a win for your audience and for
you. When you keep them connected – your
confidence increases. If you lose them –
observe how you feel. Worse than awful!
There
have been so many “secrets, tips and techniques” published on how to be confident speaker – and if that’s all it took,
we would all be brilliant speakers, with fabulous content, and adoring
audiences! There is no secret – or, if
you like, the secret is called PREPARATION.
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